Financial woes

I’m poor. As an educator I don’t make a lot. I know I am told that it isn’t about me buying stuff....I am afraid it is part of it. We hang out and I pay always although they are broke. LOL ANYWAYS, they went out with someone else recently, twice actually and the second time was with someone that we agreed they would tell me about always, and they pay always with them. I’m stuck. I want to say something. Badly. I just don’t know if it is okay to do so or if I’m causing trouble. I need help on this. It bugs me they went out with them and didn’t tell me. IDEA! I’m starting things over in a way so say to them not to be aprehensive about telling me stuff. If they did choose not to tell me that is why. 🙂